The Edutopia Poll
by Sara Ring
Web sites like Facebook and MySpace have made it easy for users to connect with friends old and new, share likes and dislikes, and communicate in real time. But should teachers and students connect with this tool? Personal profile pages can be intimate and revealing and are bound to raise some eyebrows. The school board in Lamar, Mississippi, recently created a policy forbidding teachers and students from being friends on social-networking sites, and at least two other districts in the state may enforce similar rules. The board contends that engagement on these sites blurs the line between personal and professional communication. Yet befriending students online lets teachers learn more about their interests and family life, provide encouragement, and strengthen student-teacher bonds. Is connecting this way improper, or helpful? Tell us what you think!
I dont think that its wrong
Submitted by yashpal (not verified) on October 11, 2008 - 13:05.
I dont think that its wrong to have students as friends on orkut or other social networks unless the teacher knows his line but students
might not be that mature so probably they could be more as freinds when they are already taught the subject then during the coursework .
Relationships with Students
Submitted by Michael Gary (not verified) on October 9, 2008 - 13:30.
I would rather be safe and employed than accused and unemployed.
You have to keep the contact with your students and parents as a professional one.
What teacher has time to have relationships with their students outside of school anyway ? Why would you want to ?
I prefer adults my own age 30's and 40's that have interesting things to share in a friendship and not kids anyway....
On an emotional development level you might want to ask yourself why would you want to spend time having any kind of relationship outside of school with anyone under the age of 18.
It's a slippery slope that can only bring drama and legal issues into your professional life.
I for one would rather have fun outside of school with people my own age.
I would only see students at school where there are other adults and cameras etc....
Are student teacher relationships on social networking sites ok
Submitted by Tamara (not verified) on September 30, 2008 - 18:08.
Maybe parents should become more involved. If employers can figure out how to view potential employees facebook and my space sites why can't parents. I posted a blog on this issue if anyone is interested in further reading. The link is as follows:
http://jolt.unc.edu/blog/2008/08/30/why-legislatures-should-not-ban-teachers-forming-social-networking-relationships-the
I go where my students are...
Submitted by Steve (not verified) on August 13, 2008 - 13:19.
I need relationship with my students before I can inspire rigor. I am a professional. I do not "friend" people on Facebook who are inappropriate on their profiles. My students understand that I am on Facebook as a teacher who appreciates his students on a personal level as well as a student level. I genuinely care about and like my students as people, and I show that by speaking with them as such in the dynamic where they are.
Friendships with Students
Submitted by Rhonda (not verified) on August 8, 2008 - 15:05.
As long as you keep it appropriate, a person can have friends of all ages and backgrounds. I think we are a little too hung up on age nowadays with a lot of people having dirty minds. If a couple were aged 25 and 35 no one would think a thing about it, but if that same couple were 15 and 25 everyone thinks something is wrong. At 50 years old I had a friend who was 14. We talked about many things from religion to relationships. I was his friend, not his parents's He helped me move and took care of my pets. A friend who was more his age literally carried him out of a house where he had been using drugs and helped him sober up at my house. He had a poor relationship with his parents. He was about 17 by this point. I helped him get away from practicing wwitchcraft and lead him toward Christianity. He came to my church to help set up for a friend's wedding and ended up doing the bride's hair and makeup when the person who was supposed to did not show up. At 19 I trusted him to move my things several hundred miles in a U-haul. Like another young friend, who nominated him for a food bank board said, "Age is just a number". It is, however, up to the adult not to let a relationship become sexual. People today are too hung up about sex and think if you have any kind of relationship with the opposite sex it is a sexual relationship. I never thought about having sex with my younger friends or anyone else other than my husband.
Communicating with students on social pages
Submitted by Penny Choice (not verified) on August 7, 2008 - 09:32.
I have found it wonderful to reconnect with students AFTER THEY HAVE GRADUATED. The opportunity to reconnect with students after they have become adults is delightful. It's fun to see how their lives have developed and to remember the opportunities they have had in school. Of course, reconnecting is by invitation only - when THEY request it.
New Society...
Submitted by Mike (not verified) on August 7, 2008 - 05:29.
In this age of different socialization media, I feel it important to make my presence known to help be a guide and role model. If I see something that is inappropriate, I tell them and help to guide them. I also help monitor for safety reasons. Teacher-student interactions via the electronic media versus face-to-face appropriateness once again is dictated by common sense, both are guided by similar boundaries which we must never breech. Once you put it out there, it is there for all to see, or at least recorded.
I feel that students sometimes need that extra role model to connect to. With so many families that aren't meeting the needs of our youth, I say we are needed. For those that are inappropriate, same as face-to-face relationships...you should be in the education business if you are willing to cross those boundaries and harm the students. For those teachers that have problems establishing positive relationships with their students in regular conditions, it probably will not work via the internet either. You must stay positive and hold expectations high. My 2 cents worth :)
Over 18
Submitted by Tina Bulleigh (not verified) on August 6, 2008 - 18:22.
In dealing mostly with students under the age of 18, I inform them that I am honored to have been asked to be a part of their network, but I impose an 18 years or older rule for my Facebook page. I do it as a preventative measure, in case someone would wrongly accuses me of an inappropriate relationship. First thing they would slap all over the headlines "Teacher Fraternizing with Minors on Facebook." I just don't want to put myself in that position.
I have no issue otherwise with forming relationships with students outside of the confines of the classroom. Students respect you more if you make that effort, so I don't have an issue with the social networking, as long as the adult monitors themselves properly and understands that they might find themselves in a situation where they may have to do some mandatory reporting. It is a tough call, so I don't choose to put myself there quite yet.
Teacher & student use of social networking sites
Submitted by AA (not verified) on August 6, 2008 - 10:19.
Kids and Teachers should absolutely have communication on MySpace, etc. It is a valuable communication tool for my school club and I can post their pictures when we compete. If practice changes I just bulletin it and they all get it, saving me hours of phone calls.
Social networking and students
Submitted by JC Hackett (not verified) on August 5, 2008 - 18:55.
As a social-networker, blogger and digital media contributor myself, I value websites that connect me to people who share my interests, and I encourage my students to find meaningful connections --- connections which oftentimes expand their global and cultural awareness. I share personal stories of connecting with old friends or family members I haven't seen in some time, and I share stories of happily married couples who met (appropriately) online. Digital spaces are great places to share and connect. They seem less effective (and more dangerous) when they are used to maintain relationships which just could easily exist outside of them.
Why utilize a digital space, when it's possible (perhaps less easy or comfortable) to share a personal, temporal space in the real world? Our students need teachers who will model for them communication and problem solving skills in a face-to-face environment. They need teachers who model personal interactions and who are willing to help students explore interactions which are not, at their core, consistent of zeros and ones in what is ostensibly an imaginative, made-up realm of data. Our students need teachers who draw students to digital spaces for academic purposes, and who draw them away from digital spaces for personal purposes.
Befriending students through the sharing of profiles and writing on "walls" undermines, in many ways, the very tools we're attempting to provide our students with: Namely, seeing the Internet and its resources as a very tool itself. Not a house.
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